Behavior that communicates: a parent's view of ABA therapy services
A mother spent months treating her son's grocery store meltdowns as a discipline problem, something to correct with firmer boundaries, before a BCBA reframed the whole situation for her in a single sentence: he is not misbehaving, he is telling you something in the only way he currently can. That reframe changed how she approached almost everything that followed. Understanding behavior as communication rather than defiance is one of the more useful shifts a parent can make early in this process, and it tends to change how a family responds to hard moments long before any formal goal shows measurable progress. Reading behavior as a message Every behavior, including the ones that look disruptive on the surface, is typically serving a function, escape from a demand, access to something wanted, a sensory need, or a bid for attention. A functional behavior assessment exists specifically to identify which of these is actually driving a given behavior, since guessing wrong tends to prod...