A child who refuses to take part in a session and the delays it causes
For eleven minutes the technician does nothing. She has put a bin of cars on the rug, sat down about six feet from the dining table, and started building a track by herself. Under the table a five year old is lying on his side watching her, having made it extremely clear on arrival that he was not coming out. At minute twelve a car rolls towards him and he pushes it back, which is the first thing that has happened all afternoon and is also, in the notes written later, the beginning of the session. Refusal is the most ordinary thing in home based therapy and the most alarming to parents, who tend to interpret it as evidence that the whole arrangement is wrong. Occasionally it is. More often it is information that nobody has read yet. What the refusal is saying Behavior that avoids something is doing a job, and the job is usually escape. The question is escape from what. Demands pitched slightly too high. A reinforcer that stopped meaning anything three weeks ago. A particular pers...